Where Should I Live?

How close should a church leader live to the community they serve? I've known of pastors who intentionally have moved many miles from their church in order to have separation and be able to get away from the pressures of ministry. Is this a wise strategy for leaders? I don't think so. Just as we need to be strategic in other areas, where you live and what you live in is also a strategic decision. You should choose a modest home that is similar in size and value to the target for your church. If you live in too nice of a place, people will make all kinds of false assumptions about you. However, if you live in a home that is too far below the value of those in your community, you may not be able to relate to your target. It's important that you live in the community where you serve for many reasons:

• Your credibility and trust level are raised.
• You become an active part of the community
• You are more easily able to have people over to your house. People connect with you better when they see you in your natural habitat.
• You're able to model the value of hospitality.
• You show your commitment to your community.
• You will develop relationships with people in your neighborhood who will be more likely to be a part of your church family.

Doing life in one central area will also reduce the stress in your life. For a good resource on this, check out Randy Frazee's book Making Room For Life.